I shelved my aunt the same day I was shelved by my lover. Admittedly, her dismissal was more traumatic of the two. Later, when I cried for myself, I cried for her, too. She’s not on my coffee table any more, at least, but she’s hovering. She’s not overbearing about it; my guilt is.
Meaning.
As far as my own shelving, I’m surprised that after the initial upset, I am feeling fine. Mind you, I still feel conflicted as it wasn’t an outright rejection but an honest sort of halfway rejection, which makes no sense but is true anyway. He’s not ready for the next step, you see. As consolation, he says he’s going to cook me dinner. He said I was beautiful when I told him I felt ugly. He said he was so sorry. He had the balls to stick around when I started crying. I’m not sure of the duration of my weeping spell, but I suppose it’s quality not quantity that matters.
Meaning.
I’ve been thinking of getting rid of my old books. It seems so blasphemous since I’m a writer. I feel as though I’m betraying some code that insists you have a responsibility to the book once you read its secrets. I feel as though if I can navigate the passage to letting go, I will have made some sort of real progress in my life.
Meaning I am tortured by meaning.
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August 18, 2009 at 10:37 am
poeticgrin
The most recent two posts are probably my “favorite” (if favorite is the right word) prose posts you’ve shared. Strong and sad.
August 18, 2009 at 12:08 pm
medicatedlady
Thanks, B.
August 18, 2009 at 1:59 pm
jessiecarty
There is something calming and satisfying in purging things. Even books.
I keep most but there are times when I must set some aside.
Then again, the same can be done with the refrigerator which I just did after snacking on leftover chinese. *sigh* now I need actual food again..
August 19, 2009 at 11:23 pm
mariana
Do not torture yourself it is worthless, here I choose from my blog one of the theories about how we make meaning of what happens or what we percive in this word, I think this might work for now, if not go there and search the one that suits your thoughts.
Story models: One way in wich we explain the world around us is to create stories about it. In particular when we are face with complex situations, we will pick out what seems to be key elements and then turn these into a story.